The Classic Backstabber…

Here comes the hot topic Im writing up..

First of all, Im wondering do anyone able to identify backstabber’s face? I wish can identify them before they play the game…

Its all about people mentality when comes to appreciation,loyalty and how you get fucked up with so called good people at the initial stage and end up reveal their true colours at final endings.

Recently 1 guy joined my company as forwarding executive. He is father of 4 kids and leading a moderate lifestyle.
He was jobless for 8 months and been introduced by forwarding manager to assist in forwarding department.

In the interview after all formality session; at one point of time,my MD asked him “do you have any issue to start work immediately?” since he was not working for sometime.
This asshole fast reaction was come up with his sad story saying that he owe someone RM5000 and need to settle them. Out of sudden MD told him will pay for him and he no need to pay him back. He even ask account manager to give cash cheque to him just to make sure he can start work immediately without any problem.

Shocked with my MD’s reaction, this guy burst out with tears saying that he will never forget my MD and will work till he die for him..and the situation something like he will carry my MD balls where ever he goes from the day onwards.

Ok..all was well and the problem started last 2 weeks when he was given RM900 to pay for some shipment charges. This guy took this money and didnt pay for it and he just “buat bodoh” about it.
After 1 week, my forwarding manager asked him what happen to the money and he insist already paid the money. Stupid asshole right??? It never crossed in this mango idiots head that my forwarding manager will check with the people.

So, as you guys can predict, this bastard didnt pay back the money even after forwarding manager gave him one week to repay back. Then he took MC for few days and went missing..

Today, we receive back the handphone given to him with sim card, and guess what??
We found resignation letter was written in torn letter and kept in handphone box itself!!
Now you guys tell me..he sounds as true mother fucker right?? How cheap he can be for his behaviour…
The least he should take effort to come over and handover the resignation letter in proper way right.. ( eventhough he knew that he is man without balls )

How to be a Religous person without a Religion

Big salam to all…
Above title is something really makes me to pen down even though its Saturday night…and that is “soda” night mike.. 😛

Well lets go to the topic…I have met up with this interesting person whom actually Im reporting to him in my organization. Anyway he had resigned yesterday for a simple reason.. HE WANTS FREEDOM AND NOT GOING TO WORK FOR 1 YEAR!…

This guy is down to earth but yet no nonsense guy when comes to perfection in each and every task taken place.
Recently, we have opened up a topic about spirituality and religion.
My first question to him was what religion he is and he answered I dont have religion and I dont follow one.
After some confrontation with him..I’ve give my thought about it here.

As a well earned person with steady income and not married till now..he is leading a life as it comes his way….but what was make me to look at his stand his the reason he gave me why leading a life without a religion.

Every religion got its own principal on how to carry on it with full of devotion. In fact there is no religion without morality aspect. Hence, for a person to follow a religion PERFECTLY he must obey the basic criteria by saying BIG NO NO to do not drink alcohol,smoke any cigarette, fuck women, betrayal etc etc..
Ethu ellam sathiammaaa?? ( damn it how possible it is??? )

Is it possible to perfectly practise the teachings in this modernized world which is full of sin and betrayal? 🙂
We should ask ourself. Example those ventured in business, they have to practise petty lies to customer in order to gain profit. It same goes to others even in the daily life we lead.

Real example is take his own situation. He been approached by a monk asking him to become a devoted Buddhist. This took place because this guy spent his leisure time with helping orphanage kid in homes and take part in some charity occasions. Further to add on, even though by his career portfolio, he is an regional manager for a well known organization, he never fails to go orphanage home nearby his house for housekeeping and when I say housekeeping its including washing bathrooms and sweeping!

This is what makes me to think deeply where do I stand and what is my contribution towards people whom really plenty of them needy out there.
Guys….how many of us practise this kinda life in this living world? 🙂

The part is, when he been confronted by the monk he challenge the monk asking how many of us practising as real Buddhist? What he meant is majority of us guys do drink alcohol and smoke cigarette. That is already prohibited in religion. So dont that sounds cheating yourself and the religion you practised when you claim yourself as a Buddhist?
This was his exact answer to the monk and the monk didnt anything and move out from there with great respect for this man.

Namba ellam enna seirum ippo? We claim ourself as Indian and practised Hinduism. We been taught how deep Hinduism is but yet we do alot of things againts the religion itself.
Ironically its all depends how we take this to our mind and give it a good thought for it.

Of course I didnt encourage anyone to lead life without religion or dont practise or follow any one of it.
The things is… when we say religion, its really pure and need deep devotion to practised it.

So if you think you’re doing the right thing….then go ahead with it..or else if you are not fully follow the rules as the religion should be practised…then dont cheat yourself and claim you are a Hindu, Muslim,Buddhist or Christian.

You know why????? because end of the day all the religion carries and need high morality and integrity to adopt one or to practise it with full devotion.

Im not a great religion follower also because Im just another asshole who still claim as Hindu but do all the sins together…

When Serial Drama Masala becomes Our Community ” Masalah”

Yes! Its all about the serial dramas Im gonna spill out..

This is my first article after sometime and this one is pending for long in my mind.
What is happening nowdays in almost each Indian household especially on prime time? Nothing else than serial drama been aired for the devoted viewers who stick their butt in front of TV.
Now the point is, what is happening mostly in this dramas? Its nothing than fucking fighting within family members which will be prolonged for many days…opss it actually lead to months and some dramas lead to yearssss! Kadavuley mudiyilea paaa 😦
The worst thing need to be noted in those dramas which our people enjoying is pointed as below:

– How to fight within family members
– How to use suitable bad words in front of kids to fight.
– How to seperate united family
– How to fuck and screwed others life.
– How to dig neighbours story and make it a big release of the day.

Guys… this list can prolong even longer!
Why our elders can be so attracted to this dramas is still 1 million dollar question when it basically talking about same thing again and again and the best part is they not get bored with this sickness but in fact become more addicted :S
See…I never say we cannot watch those dramas..the kids honestly eventually learning all the bad “serial mantra words” from this. Below was simple example for what Ive said..


Scene: at police station.
Scene Actress: First wife and Second wife

First Wife: Naa unnum unna mari adetevengga kumbathai kedekereve illai!
( Im not a problem creater for in other life…)

Second Wife: Hahahaha..naa unna mari mollamari illai kevelema poi kes poderatheke unn mele..
(Im not like a con women like you to file a false case on me)

First Wife: Naa nalla kudumbathil porentheve..
(I came from good family background)

Second Wife: Enn kitta vecekitta..un nelama kadasiyilea pichakarii than..
( If you want had with me, then youll be the women beggar..)

Then the scene continue shows the second wife goes off and say bye to the first wife and utter “Bye Pichakariii”..

Grrrrrr….. Photobucket

Anyway all above its just my personal view of what Ive observed and end of the day its evryones choice of viewing what they liked.
Whatsoever..its a good programme for who ever want to be a good bad mouthing person or to train their kins to become one..
A intensive class viewing of 10 episodes shall shape up a person to successfully bring down another person in life.. 🙂


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Im back!

Almost a year plus ready I shade off from blogging due to work commitments. It was tough for me spare minutes for it. Further to add on and the worst, I do missed good write ups from my favourite bloggers around as well..
Forgive me kaingaley.. 😛

Shall gear up now onwards!!!!!

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Spiritualism…The way Im looking at..

SPRITUALISM…A topic that probably big as sea..or small as a drop of water…
Well here I would like to share my point of view about it because Im still searching on it and follow on the right path…

First of all…in this planet we have lots of religion and believes and each of it is jusytifying on its on way for the believers.
Now come to basics, we as normal human being, whom born in this world without any single desire growing by time to time with feeding of desires by parents..I mean we been taught of good moral life, feed our self, dressing to hide our “manam” and become a well respected in life by others meaning get good education and job to survive, earning as much as you can monetary wise. Not to forget to pray to whom and what religion need to followed.
Well, from all above, we will lead our life as what we are today..rushing for healthy n happy life..wealthy life too till our last day comes.
My question is, are we here doing and leading a correct way of LIFE? Is that what the reason we are here? Do all the humans in this world got true respect towards each humans born in this world? With only 30% consist of earthly life..humans all fighting for their religion, fight for their family and try to say their GOD are the best. After all at the end will die and dont even not bothered to know what is real life living about.

Now, this is in my mind says when we born, yes we will be feed with all needs as perfect human being as been said above.However, when you grow older and have own mind start to think independantly, I believe we can judge already on what is the REAL thing we need to do as HUMAN IN THIS PLANET WHILE LIVING A SO CALLED LIFE.

– DESIRE FOR YOUR OWN MORAL VALUES NOT MATERIALISTIC DESIRE…means try to make other happy whoever linked with you or came across in your life. Grow basic values that dying in human within you, MORAL,LOVE,CARE,HELPING HAND,FEED THE NEEDS,ADOPT AN ORPHAN CHILD AT LEAST 1 CHILD EVEN you capable to have 10 childs with your spouse regardless any race or religion.

Personally Im wondering is it a MUST to go Temple only and not to Mosque or Tokong? I dont know honestly..I believe its an option because going to mentioned divine power places not vital as the divinity value is actually always within us.
Your athma “manasatchi” is doing wonders and the character of GOD is actually within you. Below are the few example things we do in our daily life and that also NATURALLY without any GURUJI OR GODMAN instruction.
1.When you walk around,you came across a broken glass on the road..and you will take n throw it away from walking path rite?
2. When you see beggar is begging for money,you in sudden will fork out money and put on his tray..
3. When someone ask for donation for their child sickness thru emails or advertisement in news or paper,you too will fork out some money and donate..even if you dont donate, atleast a kind of natural feel sorry or sad to hear this news and you wish to help kinda feelings will arise rite?…

THIS IS WHAT I CALLED GOD’S NATURE WITHIN US. 🙂 I honestly dunno its rite or wrong Im saying this but this is what my personnal feel about it..
What I mean is you can pray as been taught to you in life and pray to whom you want,explore it, love it all the times and cherish the value in it being a Hindu,Muslim or Christian but the most important thing is do seek and feel another religion within yourself since you’re in your mom womb itself..That is HUMANISM VALUE. 🙂
A humanitarian value is also a religion that lies within all human in this world which is lacking day by day and lead this world to end of it.
Yes!! If this value been realised by all living being in this planet, I think there wont be anyone will be hungry for food, no one will be so called orphans, no revenge,no fight, no wars… and can add more NOOOOSSS on negative values.

The real spiritualism that I feel we all need to realise and devoted is first of all humanitarian kinda value. If this fundamental value is implimented within us no matter when it happens or we realise it..I believe all above mentioned wrond doings will vanish one fine day.. After all our living days been granted in this world hardly never cross more than 100 YEARS..if yes also not many yaa..
Well within this bloody short term all going towards fighting for their RELIGION,CONTRY,FAMILY, AND EVEN FOR THEMSELF.
Sometimes, I do wonder how selfish is HUMAN can be including me as well 🙂 ??!…..

I dont want to elaborate more on this things..
I just can hope all of us do think about this and be more fair to all humans in everything we do..and..

As I my title says..the way Im looking at SPIRITUALISM is not only about talking and going into ones religion deeply…but self awareness of this basic fundamental values starts from all the great end of Spiritually Realization that the world is talking about nowdays 🙂

I bow down to earth and say sorry to anyone I would have hurt…but still stand ahead on the way we should look at the world people moves on their own agendas..

Above is a basic Tamilian looking at spiritualism as a normal HUMAN BEING ..Eppadi 😉

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When our teenage boys and gurls wanna behave like ADULT!

Well, guess above topic was in my mind for sometime but keep forgetting to update about this nuisance always..At all the time when Im just observing this teenages on their behaviour and especially strucked at any functions.
The way they carry themself is just disgusting and sometimes its funny as well…Below are some signals of the way they behave:


Non shaved moustache or beard even though its just start to grow here and there on the face..They dont intend to shave and at that point of view, its just look like a human in cat face… ( misai kucing laa machi…)
Intereference on adult conversation..Yes!! when there are group of adult talkin about something, they intend to take part of it and end up talk rubbish in between which will eventually will lead them to become a centre of laughing stock or else get scolded with the elders.
Smoke and Drinks…this another trademark they want to show off and end up they will look like clown by the 2nd can of beer! Maire mari erukum munja pake..
– Try show MACHO MAN view end up look like MUNCHIN MONKEY..

Above is guys…now come to Gurllsss…

Excessive make ups.. Yes! Sometimes just looked like a witch in making but age is just like attain puberty yesterday..
Lipsticks is normal…but not to extend of colouring the whole face till look so weird..but for them theyre the latest chick on the block..
Carrying handbags..Sound like normal but actually not! Carrying hand bags on every places looks like a “MAMA selling chicks” the differents is “MAMA” got “vettalai dappa” but this gurls got handbags!!
Body language…Another disgusting thing that been observed usually..What I meant is walking style and chest up matters..Jessica Alba also not a competitor for them in terms of walking… “antha aate atungge edupa!!”

All above is kinda so called adulteries facts they will do just to show they are growned up and this trend is keep happening to a level whereby even standard 6 to form 3 pupils nowdays!!!
I have just 1 thing to say to this groups…” You are in the level that even dunno how to fuck properly,so dont get fucked up in your entire life just to show you are ADULT 😉 because there are alot of “chicks hunter” out there and counting to destroy your life and for guys, there are lot of smart gurls and criminal rowdies to make you just looked like a stupid nut at the end of your days..

Harsh rite…YES IT SHOULD BE HARSH FOR “budak budaks” like this…Got it?..Well think about it.

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Family relations interference in our own bloody life…

Good day today…

I have nothin much to do in ofis today…so feel wanna write something about relations…I mean namba family sonthakaravengga than… 🙂

Yes! that was in my mind…Honestly this kinda every issue will be related to relations when we want to take some decision in life..and UNIQUELY…ONLY IN OUR INDIAN FAMILY MAJORITY HAPPENING LIKE THIS 🙂
Ethe senjalum avan enaa solevan …evan enna solevan ne ore mandai vali…

I crossed this in my family many times..whatever things we want to do and if its not usual matter then parents immediately will say “what our ppl will say if you do this ah”.. Yes!!! HONESTLY i dont understand this formula of parents..

Im not saying parents is wrong but giving relations or relations kids on how they doing in life is totally sickening for me!!
Example, when I wanted to study private college, my father told me just like below converse:

Me: Appa , I wan to study at college for this course..
Father: Yenda course se? go lar study fomr 6 and enter university…
Me: College pona kude can go university paa.
Fathee: Venam venam…Kavitha akka paru ( my cousin la) university poiyee grad pannirici…Neeyum antha mari poi padichi grad panne..
Me: Aiyoo…Illai paa akka veke form 6 seiyanum aasai…thats why she go and do it..Enake form 6 venam paa…kastama ellarum sodrangga..I want do course..
Father: Kuttali peca ketekitte pesathey nee…Olunga form 6 padi da…aprum public unversity polam..

I tell you ah at that point of time ahh wat was in my mind you know?? ” Sonthakaran enna senjalum maire mari nambalam seiyanum pole…” Talai eluthe da raammmaaaaaa….(akka padikuthe x2 solli ennai mukka vecithangga.. 😦 )

At the end…I did la form 6 and ending screwing myself… hehehehhee…sonthakaran kathai enake soga kathai achi.. 😛

Parents actually telling things to us in order we will be better person in life…well understand and I dont blame them as well…BUTTTTTT taking relations as example is damn sickening I tell you..

My point of view is our parents should give priority for the kids ambition rather than consider relations remark on us and it can be any matter also..not only studies wise….

Ethu ellam yenniki mare poguthooooo….

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